TWO MAJOR KEYS TO BECOMING A MAN

TWO MAJOR KEYS TO BECOMING A MAN

 In the world we live in you need to be born to be able to die which means death itself is a privilege that only the living can access, you need to follow every process in life because every process has its purpose for you. When are born we are called babies, when we grow passed babies we are called children, when we start experiencing unusual growths, get a beautiful girlfriend we are called big boys, when we  break her heart and replace her immediately we are called play boys, when we are through with school, get a good job, get married, bear children we are called men, when we hit a big contract and gain millions from it we are called big men, when we carry others along and turn them into big men we are called bosses.

1.           Maturity: Becoming a man is not all about the processes of life, becoming a man is not all about what you can achieve from hard work, it is far from all of these because there is so much more to becoming a man. Becoming a man is the ability of a boy or male figure to be able to behave, act and think like a man, The world is filled with boys who think that they are men, boys who try to be men, everyone wants to be in control when they do not possess the key to control. To become a man you need to possess maturity, maturity doesn’t mean your, age it means how reasonable and sensible you can be in every situation you find yourself, maturity has to do with the way you talk, the way you act, the way you control everything around you and not the amount of girls you got in your life, that is why a boy will never be a man unless he possesses maturity, a boy will never wear the crown of men unless he is fit for that crown and ready to put it on.

      Only Boys buy phones of 300,000 and complain of poverty while men buy vehicles of 250,000 register the vehicle with a transport agency for 50,000 for business.

     Only Boys hold on to the alcohol when in bad situations while men hold on to God in bad situations.

Maturity can never be bought, it is acquired and earned not just by anyone but by someone who is ready to understand the world and control it for his life to work out good.

             Men do not just act on a push by the body but they act with thoughts from the inner mind because they take more time to think rather than taking less time to act, men don’t make decisions without a thought. Thinking is maturity and maturity is impossible without thoughts because they work together in the mind of a man to make him a better and bigger man.

Becoming a man takes steps to achieve it takes procedures and rules to obey and maturity is the number one step and key to becoming a man, you are not a big man because of what you are worth on the internet, you a big man because of how you think, how you act, how your perspective works and how you are able to handle situations that seem tougher than you. To become a big man you must be born and you must know that death exists in other to work with time. Your relevance must be to yourself first because if you are not relevant to yourself you will never be relevant to others and no one would feel your impact at all, your life would not make meaning if you do not put meaning into it because no one would run this race for you. If all you think about is women, parties, drinks, drugs and fun then you will never become a man because men have more important things to think about, more important things that would assist them to grow in life, men occupy their minds with positivity, they make sure that nothing irrelevant would ever last long in their minds because they set priorities on the most relevant things to think about.

Maturity is not a ghost it is a real life element and key to success and an open door to a good perspective that turns a boy into a man, we human beings do not know how awesome it is to think differently from others, we do not know how overwhelming it is to act unique from others, a man always makes a unique move because he doesn’t want the same out come as the others and he wants his result to carry a different signature on it. Maturity is the number one key to becoming a man because it places an individual on a different path from others and it gives a person access to unbelievable opportunities. You cannot continue to work with boys and expect to be a man, it doesn’t work that way because those boys would turn you into something that looks exactly like them and then subsequently you become who they have become because of influence. You need influence from men to become a man and not the other way round, you need influence from people you aspire to become, in other to be on the right track to achieving your dreams because just one wrong association can ruin your journey of a life time, just a single wrong company can erase your entire life struggle and expectations, just one mistake could make your dreams fall at your feet and be impossible to pick back up.

2.           Patience: patience is not easy at all it is a thing that takes discipline to follow, it is a step that most human beings run away from in the name of rush and anxiety so many people rush everything in their lives even when they do not know the direction to go, unnecessary speed has killed so many dreams, so many talents, and so many destinies because of how powerful and capable it is it can drive an individual insane. Rush can make you think that you would arrive there in time while at the end you don’t even get there at all. if you are patient you would be able to see everything clearly and you would be able to act on it wisely because you were patient enough to understand the situation but when in a hurry you may stumble into the same problem you were avoiding and not have hope of a second chance. Becoming a man takes patience and faith, it shows that you have believe that one day you will get to that place if you patiently understand every road that leads to the place. To become a man you must possess patience not just because people need to see the patience in you but because you need to see the patience in yourself and use it to help yourself. For a man to be able to think he needs to listen to his thoughts and for a man to be able to listen to his thoughts he needs patience or else nothing significant would be achieved by that man.  Patience is something that every success craving human must possess to move forward in life, it is not just a characteristic, an attribute or a quality but it is a personality builder, patience makes you more of a man than a boy because with patience in you, when   certain situations as terrible you tend to see those same situations as an opportunity to avoid the terrible from happening because you had the ability to be patient, listen and think of a solution. Becoming a man is no task for unserious minds, it is no task for the blind minds, it is no task for the kind of people that are always in a rush, but it is a task for the patient kind of people, it is a task for the realistic minds, it is a task for the kind of people who know what they are aiming at. You cannot have a gun and not know how to aim, you cannot have money and spend it so lame, you cannot have opportunities in your hands and you are swimming in poverty because poverty is not lack of money but lack of ideas and opportunities.
           

            Opportunities would not just appear and present itself, opportunities come from ideas, which means that if you lack ideas you can’t get opportunities. You are poor because you are lazy, lazy to work, lazy to think, lazy to act and lazy to aim that goal of yours, thinking is work on its own so you need to know that the earlier you start thinking the better for you and the faster you realize the importance of patience the better you become.  Patience may not be the key to all the doors that you have always wished to open but it is the key to certain important doors in your life, important doors that would help you grow and become a bigger and better man.